Anyway, he came up with the bright idea to get online and take the Five Love Languages assessment, to see if his love languages were still the same.
After we both took the assessment (it took about 10 minutes total) we found out that his hadn't changed, but mine definitely had. {My primary love language is quality time while his is physical touch.}
This helped us out big time.
It always helps to know which types of actions/words make your spouse feel most loved. The best part about the assessment is that it's available in six different forms:
*For Wives *For Husbands *For Singles *For Children
*For Parents of Teenagers and *Languages of Apology
If you'd like to find out what your love languages are, you should definitely go check out the 5 love languages website!
I'd also recommend you read the book. It's been such a major help in my life. It will for sure help you as well!
Have a great Monday night!
I love that he went and took the test all on his own. That is pretty darn cute :)
ReplyDeleteAhhh, I keep hearing about this book. Now I'm off to take our assessments (and probably will be buying the book soon lol). Thanks for sharing ;)
ReplyDeletei agree with delaney. i love that he took the test because it just shows where his heart is despite the fight that happened. He is a man who works at loving his woman. so admirable. And i love that book. I read it in highschool actually when i was struggling with depression. blessed me.
ReplyDelete♥cheche
http://savedthrulove.blogspot.com
There's nothing like getting on the same page. ha. ha. a bit of a pun there.. ;) but really, glad you both are now. :)
ReplyDeleteEmily at Amazing Grapes
My hubby and I were JUST talking about this yesterday! My hubby is physical touch and I am totally quality time too!!
ReplyDeleteI love this book! I bet about 99.8% of men's love language is physical touch, surprise, surprise... jk... but for real, God has used this book to bless my wife & i soooo much! Jon, way to step up the game for married men. And Becks, you know you rock!!!
ReplyDeleteThis book rocks!It is SO helpful to understand each other! By the way I love love love your blog and just find it to be such a fun read!
ReplyDeletexo, Kelsey Belle
www.happiereading.typepad.com
I just blogged about this book too! http://www.heatherboersma.com/make-him-feel-like-hes-the-man/
ReplyDeleteI love that we're on the same page. I knew there was a reason I found your blog : )